don’t use this anymore.

i have a new blog. cya

I’m really pissed off. It’s so cool to put down girls who want to lose weight or get fit at the moment. Honestly, I find it really sad. Almost every single person I’m following has posted or re-blogged a huge rant about how important it is to be comfortable in your own skin no matter what size you are, and also how “stupid,” girls are for pushing their bodies to be something they aren’t.

Yes- you are correct that self confidence is SO SO important and it is so great to see that so many of you are infact, happy and comfortable with yourselves. Why do you feel the need to make those who aren’t, feel so stupid about themselves? It isn’t going to give them some epiphany and change their opinions of themselves. I will also agree with you, followers, the stupidity and obnoxious-ness (not even a word, whatever) of girls who are doing this for “that guy,” or just so they can be “hot” and wear shorts that show half their ass cheeks. What you don’t seem to understand is that for some, it goes much further than that. Loving your body is not always that easy. These extremely harsh and judgmental rants you all love to post and re-blog are not hurting the girls who are losing weight to please people, it’s not affecting them or changing anything, and to be honest, most of them are simply in a phase, probably worrying about summer and will never actually lose the weight they “so badly” want to. The only people you are demeaning are those who are already hurting more than you will ever believe. You are only making things worse.

I am a terrible decision maker. I am so confused.

I just ate waaay too much. Ouch